All guys know the stretch-and-put-your-arm-around- her move. Most of you have probably used this classic.
But did you know women have signature moves of their own? And did you know that, more often than not, you
probably miss them completely?
The Head Rest.
The casual head rest is a major sign we want to get closer to you. We are literally inviting you into our personal space by invading yours. We're not just
brushing something off your jumper -- we are placing our face near your face. In terms of all (non-sexual)
body parts in close proximity, the face is one of the most intimate -- you wouldn't want your face close to someone you didn't find attractive.
The Eyelash Bat
If you're noticing us holding your gaze for longer than normal -- and then looking down to the floor shyly --
know you've captured our interest. In a completely platonic encounter, maintaining eye contact shouldn't
prove a challenge because we're not threatened orembarrassed or self-conscious (unless we're incredibly
embarrassed or self-conscious normally).
But if wecan't maintain eye contact and seem nervous, it's
probably because we're really into you. Which makes usnervous.
The Thigh-On-Hand
The more intimate we feel towards you or think about you, the more likely we are to find reasons to touch you... pretty much everywhere we can.
Obviously the easiest spot to touch --and mostinnocent -- is near your penis. Just kidding! It'd be your shoulder or your upper arm. So if we're putting a
hand on your thigh (or anywhere near your junk), chances are it is very intentional and we are definitely
thinking about touching very close by. Now would certainly be the time to make a follow-up move.
The Getting Comfy
Any time we willingly cozy up next to you (read: find a reason to minimise the personal space between us) it
means we want to feel your body next to ours. Ask yourself: Would you do that with a woman you weren't
thinking about naked? No woman wants to feel a man's body next to theirs if they're not interested in a little
makeout sesh at a minimum.
The Something-In-My-Eye
This one is a bit less obvious but a move that's been used nonetheless. Picture it: You're dancing and laughing and suddenly she starts rubbing her eye. She
takes you aside and says, "I think I have something in my eye, can you see anything?" You're standing inches
away from her face. You're staring straight into her eyes. Suddenly you're thinking how close together
you're lips are and what it would be like to kiss her and you're into it before you even knew what happened.
That's one smooth move, my friend.
The Boob Graze
Read with caution: Not all women use their boobs as a flirting tool -- some of us have just been overly blessed
by nature, or maybe we couldn't be bothered to find our "good" bra that day so they're a bit less strapped down
than normal. End of story.
The Hand Brush
This is a move that's not too invasive and one that's easily ignored if not noticed -- which is what makes it such a great move. If a woman brushes her hand against yours once, it could be an
awkward mistake. Twice? No chance. If it is a mistake, chances are we will laugh awkwardly and actually bring
up in conversation the awkwardness that just happened.
But. If we meant to do it, we won't say anything until we get up the courage to try it again. So if her hand
brushes against yours (twice), grab her hand. That's what she wants.
The Tickle Trick
Tickling involves some heavy contact. You're not doing it right if you're not on the ground, on top of the person
you're tickling as they're writhing around in a fit below you. Given this, it's not exactly for two people who don't want a lot of physical contact (or the occasional
boob graze amidst all the action).
The Yawn-And-Lean
If you're moving towards the end of an evening and a woman is tired, she will yawn and say she's tired and
wants to go home. If a woman is tired and wants you to come with her home, she will give you some major
signals. One such
signal? If you're sitting near one another, and she yawns and leans her head or reaches out and rests her
hand on your shoulder or chest before she says she wants to go home, she is definitely telling you she
doesn't want to go home alone. Think about it: She's practically physically pulling you into her bed.
The Lean-And-Touch
Similar to the 'yawn-and-lean', this is probably one of the most-used major signals meaning we're into you
and want you to make a move. It's innocent enough to be taken as innocent flirting (in case you don't feel the same way back) and strong enough to be noticed.
Source: askmen.com
